Written & published by: Kevin Beard Jr.
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The name is Kevin D. Beard Jr. which is my full legal name. I'm a half White, half Black 2-toned American, who only speaks clear English & nothing more. I am born in Pennsylvania & raised by my wonderful parents who been married for 20 years & have been with each other since high school. I'm currently still living here with my parents, as I am helping them out around the house & paying towards the house. Furthermore, I'm a man who has grown up very maturely during childhood. I learned how to value my faith & my own self-worth. Since I was a little kid, I have built a moral foundation of moralities for myself. I grew up picturing the kind of person I want to be one day, with strong morals & values for himself, & guess what? I have exactly that. First of all, I don't attend college. College isn't for me. I work a full time cleaning service downtown & I take pride in my work. I have a strong work ethic & I'm quite good at what I do. I don't complain about what I do or how much money I make. Education doesn't buy myself happiness & neither does money. Education is only a choice that I choose to make & therefore, my happiness & overall success does not depend on attending school or making a lot of money. Aside from that, I'm a proud 24 year old virgin, who's 100% pure & clean & has kept his vows to stay a virgin until after marriage. Meaning, I do believe in sex after marriage. If there's any temptation to have sex, it will not work because I have put up a barrier. Why? Because I value my virginity. I want to save my virginity for the Woman that God will bring into my life. I know my limits as to what I can & can't do. Aside from virginity, I'm someone who barely has any real life friends. I'm a loner for the most part. I've been told I'm boring, but I don't complain. I'm happy I don't have to deal with so many loud & obnoxious people. I love myself & I enjoy my own company. Quite frankly, I prefer family over friends any day. With that being said, I don't have drama with anyone. I'm 100% drama free. I don't put myself around groups of people I don't know, I stay my distance. I don't talk too, or hangout around hundreds of people I don't know all at once. I stand myself aside. I prefer a quiet, peaceful surrounding where I could talk to someone I don't know 1 on 1, instead of putting myself in a noisy, loud & obnoxious environment with crowds of people I don't know all at once. Other then that, when I'm by myself, I become a very silent loner who's very observant of others actions in public. Furthermore, I'm not a flirt, I don't flirt with Woman or try to "impress" myself in front of any Woman. I'm not a "boobies" & "butt" kind of guy. I could care less what you have or how you look. However, I do have my own "kinks" & "fetishes" then & there, but nothing over the top. I'm a very peaceful guy who knows the type of personality he's looking for in a Woman & I don't settle for less. That being said, I don't interact much in public. I was quiet all throughout my Elementary, Middle & High school years. I've never been to a prom before. I never had a prom date my entire life. Also, I don't join parties, clubs, or bars. I hate parties, clubs & bars. They're pointless, ghetto & nothing but trouble. I will never attend one, ever. You may judge me & say I'm insecure at times, but I'm fully aware of my surroundings & who I'm with at all times. With that being said, I'm very cautious of my health. I don't smoke anything, drink anything, not even wine, or do any kind of bad drugs at all. Never have never will. I don't put alcohol in my system, never have never will. I'm 100% clean. I also don't do anything to harm or hurt myself, I'm very sensitive, I don't like pain, I don't have piercings or tattoo's on my flesh & blood, I refuse too. I don't wear baggy cloths or wear my pant's low. It's ignorant to the public, & to yourself & others. I don't wear the latest fashions, just something I feel comfortable in. I don't care what anyone may think of me in public, based on what I wear. In addition to that, I don't curse at all to anyone. Never have never will. It's ignorant to the public & disrespectful to yourself & others. I'm respectful & educated when I choose how I want to speak my words. I also don't swear to myself, or publicly to anyone. Never have never will. I don't say the N word in public or to myself. It's disrespectful to yourself, to others & It's immoral. I'm not a loud mouth in public, I don't talk much. I'm very quiet in public & shy around people I don't know, but once we get to talk 1 on 1, I open up. I'm a soft spoken guy with a deep, comfortable voice when I'm talking casual. I'm not a social butterfly in public, with the exception of my family who I spend time with. At times I can have a sense of humor & entertain. I don't get depressed, I don't have a low self-esteem, I don't get angry or upset nor do I show any of these emotions at all in public or to myself. I'm always happy no matter what, whether I'm helping someone, talking to my friend, eating my favorite food, watching my favorite TV shows, taking pictures, & etc. I'm a fairly outgoing person, but I'm not a wild type of guy. I'm always calm for the most part. When having discussions, I'm never hardheaded, as I'll sit through & listen to anyone until they're finished speaking. When waiting, I'm never inpatient, as I'll wait for however long I have too for anything, I don't complain, I'm easygoing. I don't have anger problems, I don't have any criminal background history, I don't put my hands on anyone, I don't fight, I'm never violent. I'm a lover. I refuse to use physical violence to solve ANY problem I'm faced with. I like to work my problems out the mature way & come to a conclusion / agreement. I'm not immature in public or in front of others, I know what's right from wrong. I walk away from immature people who aren't willing to cooperate with me, respect me, or present a mature attitude towards me & etc. I'm just going to walk away without question. With that said, I don't criticize, stereotype, or judge others in any way, shape, or form based on beliefs, opinions, Ethnicity, religion & etc. I respect & accept others for who they are & what they believe in, no matter what I may think of that person. I learn how to respect & accept others in this world who they are. Also, I'm not the clingy type of person. I respect others privacy. If you ask for space, you will be given your space without question, until you're ready to come talk to me again. I don't disrespect others privacy or intend to hurt them emotionally by wanting to "jump in" their own business when I have no right too. That's disrespectful & unacceptable. I treat everyone I see equally & with respect, no differently from the next person I encounter with. I was raised my by parents to use proper manners, politeness & behavior, & that's how I plan to live the rest of my life. With that being said, I don't argue Gods word, but rather live my life in peace. I'm spiritual, but not religious. I'm not big into fellowship, worship, or church in general. I also don't like the loud songs neither. I'm more quiet, peaceful & private about my personal relationship with my God. If I want to associate, or connect with my own God, then I will do it at privately at home when I need too, but I will not attend church or put myself around others while doing so, because that's not who I am. Unlike many others, I have strong, well grounded morals that are satisfying to my own God. Aside from that, I'm never dishonest to anyone neither. Whether you're telling the truth about yourself or lying in front of me, I'll still keep it 100% anyway. I tell it like it is whether you like it or not. I don't think highly about myself, I'm just a very quiet, calm & up-front guy when need be. I stand up for my own faith & what I believe in. I know who I am. I'm me. I refuse to fit in with everyone else around here. I rather stand out, then fit in & be someone I'm not. I'm a leader, not a follower. I remain confident & stay true to myself. Again, I speak my mind when something needs to be said, if it's the truth or my own opinion. Whether you like it or hate it, it has no effect on me as a individual. I stick to my morals & standards. I take my faith very, very seriously. I do not & will not compromise my faith for anyone else. I reach out to people who look up to me for advice & help through social media. I have a blog website that I use to mentor those who need their faith restored. I use my powerful words through social media to help give advice, encouragement, guidance & inspiration to young teenagers, Men & Woman all over the world.
There are young teenagers, Men & Woman who I meet online all around the world, on the east coast, west coast, even in the UK, & some random people who I may not even know who live in places as far as China & Tokyo. People who might live thousands of miles away from me, people who I may not be able to see in person, ever, but they're people who I take my own time out to try to help give advice, encouragement, guidance & inspiration by helping them with whatever problems they may have in life through social media. I help these people whenever I can, with whatever resources I have in front of me. I choose to take my own time out whenever I can to help guide, encourage, influence & inspire others to not do things they will most likely regret in life, or problems that they have gone through & have had a terrible experience while growing up, whether it comes down to relationship problems, smoking problems, drinking problems, drug problems, physical violence problems, cyber bullying problems, depression problems, life crisis problems, & etc. Now, I'm no expert, but everything I just mentioned above about the type of problems people have come up to me about, I've seen & witnessed it all in person & on social media. I've learned a lot of things about these type's of problems, from the kinds of stories people have came up to me about & I've also witnessed most of these problems with my own eyes as well, but never chose to interact or get myself involved in any of that bad stuff. For example, smoking, drinking, drugs, violence, depression, & etc. As you all may know, I'm only here to share my thoughts & to help others with their problems, that's what it comes down too, & that's the goal for me. Unfortunately, there are a lot of people in this world who don't care for others & only worry about their self's, so just be grateful that there are still great people in this world who don't do others "wrong" but rather willing to help others by guiding, encouraging, influencing & inspiring others on their own time to try to make a positive influence on them, for the better. Even if it's through social media websites, Facebook status's, text messaging, through a video, or even through a phone, or even in person if you happen to live close by to them. The reality of it is folks, is that most Men & Woman think they can handle their own situations & think they're "know it all's" when it comes to real life situations, but let's be honest here, nobody is perfect. I know some people won't like hearing this, but sometimes in life when all else fails, all it takes is somebody to give you a hand when you fall down, to pick you back up & get you moving on your feet again by yourself.
Written & published by: Kevin Beard Jr.
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