Where does my purpose & inspiration come from?

Written & published by: Kevin Beard Jr.

Personal Message: What my purpose of writing is & what has inspired me to write:

Before I start, I normally get asked a lot of questions about why I write the things I write about, why I write so formal, why I write long blogs on social media that have to deal with helping others for a cause, & why I spend a few hours each & everyday in my free time to write my blogs & so fourth, so hopefully within this post, I'll sum up each & every question that I've been asked.

First off, when I'm writing, I feel like I'm doing something meaningful in today's world, through the internet & on social media, or even on the paper at home, when I'm alone at my desk in a peaceful & quiet environment. Before I write, I normally spend about 4 or 5 days to brain storm what I want to write about. For example, smoking, drinking, physical violence, racism, cyber bullying, depression, suicide, relationship stress, dating advice, relationship advice, losing your virginity, & etc. Then once I know what I want to write about, I'll normally spend, about on average, 4 to 5 hours each day writing & writing & coming up with the information, insight, & knowledge that I know, for the benefit of others to seek important information, as well as the guidance, encouragement, influence, & inspiration that comes along with it.

When I'm writing for a purpose, I'm making someone either laugh or cry, or making them understand a concept that they didn't understand before reading my words, or changing one's view of a situation or aspect of life for the better of their self's & their own choices or decisions, whether that would be smoking, drinking, physical violence, Cyber bullying, relationship stress, relationship advice, virginity, typical depression, seeking happiness, & so fourth, through my words. It's amazing how words can create an image or a situation that can be emotional, or realistic, than any photograph in general, it's absolutely amazing. With that being said, I write about real life experiences that I've witnessed & been through, while writing out real life examples based of what I'm knowledgeable of, for the benefit to educate others with important information that I suggest should be used in life, if they are ever faced with a choice or decision, or even a life crises issue, & etc. I also use my real life examples for others to also learn what's right from wrong in life, what are the right thing's to do in a certain situations versus the wrong things to do in a certain situation, & the effects that will result in the end of each, positive & negative. I also write because I want to connect with others on a deep, emotional level. I want to laugh & cry with them, I want to ask questions of them, I want to understand them, surprise them, indulge them, educate them. I want to encourage people, influence people, move people, change people's minds, cultivate new thoughts, & shape new perceptions. By writing, not only can I do all of these things that I mentioned above, but I can express my own feelings to the public & give my own insights on certain topics, discussions, situations, or certain aspects of life, while thoroughly using my words, experience, & information to write out examples that I am aware & knowledgeable of, where's though others may not be so knowledgeable of, or have a clue of, with even the possibility of saving that person, or more, from something they would of done by their poor actions or choices, thing's that they would have regretted in their life's if it hadn't been for that one piece of information that I had wrote, that they weren't aware of, or those few lines of encouragement or inspiration that I wrote that they probably needed to hear, before taken action of their own choices, decisions, life issues, or their own happiness in life, & that's the significant part about helping others through my words. I also write long novels & blogs about real life situations that could unfortunately effect one's life for the worse, but in situations where I'm writing for a purpose, I strive to effect one's life for the better, not only using my words, but replying to those & interacting with others who chime in on my post's or need to seek help & advice, or need to ask questions while I use my words to help them the best I can & to give my support to those who need it, so I can express my insights to them in hopes of showing others in this world, that there are still great people in this world who would do ANYTHING to help others, even if that meant putting your writing skills, the information, & you're knowledge & turning those three traits into powerful, but inspiring & encouraging words that can impact others for the better. I care a lot for others & are willing to help others to their best of my ability, with whatever they may need help with. I write in hopes of showing young teenagers, Men & Woman in this world what's right from wrong in life & what's the best thing to do in situations where you're hurt physically & emotionally & are unsure of what to do & need advice or encouragement.

Here are a few examples of what I've wrote about so far through my Facebook page & have educated, influenced, & inspired people from. If you've missed any of these post's, or other post's that were not mentioned in these list's, then I suggest you take a look back & read them:

1. "My message to young teenagers, Men & Woman who are in a painful, but stressful relationship"

2. My message to young teenagers, Men & Woman who cheat on their loved ones in a committed relationship"

3. "My message to young teenagers, Men & Woman who need dating advice"

4. "My message to young teenagers, Men & Woman who need help finding success"

5. "My message to young teenagers, Men & Woman - Be yourself"

6. "My message for those who are afraid to make a change in their life's"

7. "My message to those who have typical depression"

8. "My message to those who are seeking happiness"

9. "My message to young teenagers, Men & Woman who lack "patience" in their lives"

10. "My message to young teenagers, Men & Woman who don't know how to love themselves before others"

11. "My message to young teenagers, Men & Woman - What it means to give "respect" to another human being in today's society"

12. "My message to young teenagers, Men & Woman: How to "find" yourself in today's society"

13. "My message to young teenagers, Men & Woman who are on the edge of suicide"

14. "My message to young teenagers, Men & Woman who want to make a difference in someones life"

Here are some of the problems that I've discussed & have input my insights on:

1. "The problem with most teenage relationships today"

2. "The problem with Cyber bullying today"

3. "The problem with physical violence today"

4. "The problem with today's teenage generation"

5. "The problem with our oversexed society"

6. "The problem with heavy smokers & heavy drinkers"

7. "The problem with "racism" today"

8. "The problem with negative peer pressure today"

9. "The problem with "Divorce" today

Here's some of the inspirational post's that I have wrote about that directly aim towards myself:

1. "Sex after marriage, proud to be virgin:"

2. "My motivation for posting long, thoughtful, truthful, "from the heart,"blogs"

3. "Young teenagers, Men & Woman all around this world can judge who I am as a person all they want, but at the end of the day, your opinions don't affect me" (Questions 1 - 17)

4. "Christianity is immoral in today's society [My beliefs]"

5. "Holiday blessings - What I'm grateful & thankful for"

6. "I am different & unique in my own way, aside from everyone else"

7. "Personal message: What I believe being a good parent means in today's world"

8. "Personal message - My thoughts about gay / lesbian marriage"

9. "A big thank you to those who have been very supportive of my writings"

As you can see, my inspiration of writing encouraging messages, or putting my insights on today's problems, or writing special holiday messages, or writing inspirational messages, that have to do with myself, is to change & move young teenagers, Men & Woman, to inspire them to start writing as well & to use their words to set good examples through social media, by helping others with their problems, inspiring others & setting good examples for others, encouraging others by giving support to them, & communicating with them, by expressing your insights, connecting with those who read your posts, replying to others who need to seek your help or advice & just overall being a leader or being an inspiration figure to someone, or a group of people, who looks up to you, no matter how much you must type or write to get you're words through or your point across for others to fully understand where you're coming from, you WILL be heard in some way, shape, or form. I don't know about anyone else, but when I write, I want others to be able to use their brain to their best of their ability & really understand where I'm coming from. I want to get people thinking deeply about what I have to say, then apply my messages, such as advice, encouragement, or inspiration messages to how they live their life's, or choices or decisions that they make, to maybe take some time out to rethink how they're living their life's, even if that means making slight adjustments in their life for the better, or to maybe rethink the choices that they may make in life that can possibly take a turn for the worse if no advice, encouragement, or help is given to them before hand, but I don't want that, I want to use my words, experience, & knowledge to save others from possibly making the wrong decisions, choices, or actions, & make them feel like they are wanted & appreciated. I want to inspire others through my words & become a leader in today's world, & continue to be an inspirational figure to many who I've touched so far within my journey of post's that I've written, those who appreciate my presence in this world & what I have to share to the world, & share with others, whether I'm writing a inspirational message that has to deal with myself personally, or writing a encouraging, but moving message that will be heard, or touch others personally, or writing about certain topic's, such as smoking, drinking, physical violence, cyber bullying, relationship stress, relationship problems, typical depression, virginity & so fourth, then joining in on discussions with others to interact with them while replying back with my own thoughts, or insights, or how I feel based on certain situations & etc. As I've said before, not only do I like to reply back with my own thoughts or insights, but I like to put myself in others shoes & I like to connect with others on the same level. My overall purpose of why I write is to give advice, guide others, encourage others, inspire others & most importantly, help others in any way I can, even if I have to use my words, or write blogs, novels, encouraging messages, inspirational messages, or use my powerful messages through social media just to make a difference in the people who need to seek my help in general. When I write, I don't use slang, I don't use short term words, nor do I ever stop writing just for the sake of it, or because I'm forced to write, or because I want to show off how much I can write, but rather because it's a passion that I have & it's something I'm good at & enjoy doing in my free time. As I've said before, writing let's me express my feelings & release my knowledge from what I know & have experienced & witnessed, based on different real life situations, or different aspects of life that I've seen with my own eyes & have been through. I write because when I think of different aspect's of life, situations, or discussions, or topics, I come up with the information that I remember when I had witnessed or experienced the situation before, I then come up with the knowledge that I know, which to me is common sense in most cases, "what's right from wrong," or, "How to avoid this problem or that problem" & so fourth, then I write out examples through my insights based on whatever topic or situation that I'm writing about, to thoroughly get my thought's or point across to others in the easiest way possible, but when I do that, I use my words & put them into a form that others can understand, whether you can comprehend well or not, I strive to give not only easygoing examples, but I'm very detailed in my writing, which gives those who can't comprehend too well, the advantage to picture the scene or situation in their head, to get their minds thinking. For those who have read any of my previous post's, would know that I strive to have a lot of complex thoughts when I write & I tend to express my thoughts accurately using language rather than a different art form. The point of myself being able to write, write, write, & write is that I am able to convey lot's of information to other people in a clear well worded way & this allows me to spread knowledge & educate the world, to use my words & to hopefully make a difference in people's life's for the better. God has definitely blessed me with a talent to write. God is good all the time...

Now, young teenagers, Men & Woman in this world may say,

"Well words don't mean nothing."

But let me tell you something, In a different context, words can have huge impacts on people even though actions mean more than words. The two prime ways of communication is action & words. Even if you don't mean what you say, it still matters. A word can have a positive or negative connotation & impact on people. Some people who are very sensitive are impacted more than others because they really take the words people say to heart. Especially to those sensitive people, words can make a big difference.

P.s Thanks to those who are all supportive... much love & appreciation...

Written & published by: Kevin Beard Jr.

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