Written & published by: Kevin Beard Jr.
The problem with our oversexed society:
First of all, what's with Men & Women walking around half naked in public & also uploading, liking, commenting & following on these "Beautiful Teen" pages or "Most Beautiful Teens of (insert year here)" pages & "Self-Shot Hotties" or "Sexy Women & Men only" groups & pages on Facebook or through any social media site for others to see?
Is it just me, or does it seem like nowadays young Teenagers, Men & Women will do anything, & I mean ANYTHING to gain attention in public/online? I ask this question because I've been seeing this a lot lately on social media & also in the public world, & I find it very annoying, but furthermore, it's ignorant to the public & disrespectful to society.
My problem is I see Men & Women walking around in public dressed like strippers & also posting half naked pictures of themselves on the internet with more than 70% of their body showing.
For the Men, it's normally their pants real low, to the point where you can see their crotch, or private areas, or with their shirts off & pants off in the picture, with only their boxers or panties on while flexing in their mirror like they're the next "hottest" thing on the media, & special aside from everyone else, then upload their picture on the social media for girls to "like this photo."
For the Women, it's normally their breasts hanging out where you could see them completely, or going shirtless, or having their ass sticking out, or pants off in public, or bathing suit on in the bathroom, taking selfies & numerous poses, & then putting their pictures on the internet for anyone to see & "like" while their photo shows up on everyone's news feed or any social media profile.
Let me tell you something: If young Teenagers, Men & Women are going to walk around in public with no respect for what they wear, or if people are going to take nudes of themselves, at least find a private area so only certain people who YOU want can either see you naked or view a specific picture of you. First of all, let me ask you a question. Why would you want to walk around in public half naked with your "junk" hanging out or take nude pictures of yourself in the first place? What, in your mind is telling you that these immoral acts are appropriate? Can you honestly sit here & tell me that you're okay with showing sexual parts of your body in public for other creeps to stare & look at it? I mean, I find it very disturbing & creepy at the same time when I look at different Men & Women today, who walk around thinking they are superior to others because they think they're “hot & sexy" & I also find it disturbing & creepy when people take sexual pictures for the public to view on the internet. In my opinion, it's disrespectful & ignorant to the public when young Teenagers, Men & Women decide to dress the way they do to gain attention or post half, or more than half naked pictures just to see what others think of them, or who looks the hottest or cutest of them all. Yet, at the same time all the Women or young girls complain about "creeps" staring at them in public or viewing their photos on a daily basis. Hm, I wonder why. I guess nobody realizes anymore that once you show off your "junk" in public & make it an everyday thing or once you upload a picture to a specific social media site, or page, or a group that you're in online, that anybody can see what you wear in public, or what you post on the internet in terms of your pictures.
However, when it comes to the online world, (regardless of what your privacy settings are) not all social media sites are 100% secured, (just putting that out there) but any gender, any age, any type of person, anywhere around the world could view your picture, copy your picture, save your picture, & then do whatever they want with it because they now own the picture that you originally took. Technically speaking, they can expose your picture on other websites online or use your photos as one of their own ID pictures to hide their identity & cover it up with as many pictures as they want of you, (as long as they're visible) or even make a fake Facebook profile or any type of social media profile in that manner, posing as yourself because they now own the picture they took off you. Most young girls, boys, Men & Women just don't know what other creeps are capable of doing to their pictures nowadays.
See, this just goes to show you that some people in this world don't care & have no self-respect towards their self or others. Most people don't know exactly what they are worth nowadays. It just shows that people who like to "show" their sexual body parts in public without any regards to dressing appropriately in certain situations are considered ignorant & disrespectful to the public. When young Teenagers, Men & Women do these kinds of acts, by walking around half naked in public or taking naked pictures of their selves & putting them on the internet, it puts a bad mark on today's society. Why do I say that? Well, think about it: When you show off your "junk" in public & post half naked pictures of yourself on the internet & you do these kinds of acts on a daily basis, it can lead to sex, & we all know that sex sells. Young Teenagers, Men & Women are almost expected to lose their virginity in high school because of the influence of TV shows & movies that portray lots of nudity & sex. Society has certainly done a great job brainwashing people into thinking that sexual activity or nudity, as in dressing provocatively in public or showing off your "junk" in public, is essential in order to be happy or complete as a person. That is wrong. Strong people, like myself realize that this is crazy, silly & dangerous for young Teenagers, Men & Women to portray in their own lives what the media shows today.
Aside from that, what disgusts me even more is when young Teenagers, Men & Women dress inappropriately in public or post all through social media saying, "I'm hot ADD ME" or "Add me, cute boys / girls only," or "Women / Men over 21 add me!". It just makes those people look desperate for friends or they want a relationship SO bad with someone that they have to let their physical appearance shine brightest, because that's the only trait they can depend on. Let me tell you all something: No Man or Woman is better looking or uglier looking than anyone else because we are all created equal. For example, I absolutely hate when I see people dress slutty or nude in public, or on social media liking these "Cutest Teenager", "Hottest Teen", "Self-Shot Hotties, "Most Beautiful Teen", or "Sexy Women & Men Only" pages & groups where people simply "like" the page or group first, then click "like" on any specific picture(s) that interest them, or when they "tag" others in the photo, just so that person, or more, can get notified when the up-loader posts more pictures of their selves or comments on their own pictures, & generally speaking, more than just half naked pictures of themselves in the picture. Next thing you know all these pictures end up showing on others’ news feeds as well.
Why do most Men & Women post naked pictures of their selves? I feel as though most Men & Women don't value their selves, because their self-esteem is bad; they think that posting nudes will get them a Man or Woman or a friendship with someone. It's absolutely disgusting when I see people who I don't even know walk around with their "junk" showing & post half naked pictures of their selves on the internet, & then the picture ends up showing up on others’ news feed simply because somebody who they happened to be friends with on there simply either got "tagged" or simply "liked" the photo. Whoever came up with these pages or groups on social media & why the hell would others want to dress naked & upload nudes of their selves in the first place & then "tag" others into the picture or "like" a random person’s pictures to begin with, especially someone who you don't know & also takes nudes of themselves? Are you kidding me?! With the kind of pictures I see, I can honestly say, we live in an oversexed society. It is absolutely 100% stupid & pathetic, to want to dress like a slut & a whore, & it's also pathetic to start some page or group ANYWHERE on social media where they make other young Teenagers, Men & Women feel like they aren't sexy or hot enough to join into the groups or pages, or to post the type of half-naked pictures that most "want-to-be," "attention seeking" teenagers, Men & Women take of their selves.
I am speaking to everyone on this: Don't worry about looks because looks aren't everything. It doesn't matter what clothes you wear, what your hair looks like, what shoes you wear, how deformed you look, if you're White, Black, Tan, Blue, Pink, Mixed, fat, skinny, slim, stocky, or if you're underweight, or overweight, or if you're short, tall, or have White hair, Black Hair, Blonde hair, Red hair, or have Black, grey, green, blue, red, hazel eyes. It doesn't matter if you are emo, gothic, transgender, gay, disabled, handicapped, lesbian, etc. It doesn't matter what you look like, or what your abilities are, or how you live your life, etc. for we are ALL equal, pretty & unique in our own ways. Now, what my problem is with today's type of oversexed society, is that people don't understand how to value their selves in the proper manner either because of bad parenting or lack of morality. Believe it or not, a lot of young Teenagers, Men & Women will use social media & depend on their outside appearance to try to get them a young teen boy or girl, Woman, or a Man, or simply just to become more popular on social media site. These types of people think they are only valued by their looks, so they use their body to feel loved & appreciated, which is bad. That's what I think.
If people want to expose their body SO bad, then go to a porn website or somewhere appropriate for that manner, like a beach, a strip club, night club, mega kitty xxx, or some private place with your boyfriend or girlfriend, or wife or husband, or somewhere, someplace, but I wouldn't advise anyone to dress slutty or half naked in casual public places, or use the internet to publicly post their nudes & to show everyone else who could care less about what you look like, because it's rude, ignorant, & very disrespectful to society, not only to yourself, but to others as well. Once again, looks aren't everything. Young Men & Women & everyone else in this world who are desperate to publicly show their "junk" so bad or use the internet to post their "junk" need to realize that this is just the internet; young Teenagers, Men & Women will NOT benefit or gain more fame from anyone or anything when they post half naked pictures of their selves, that include their breasts, tits, ass, curves, crotch, abs, private parts & etc. sticking out on social media or even in public. It just makes them look desperate for attention, that's all. It's time to grow up.
People might come up to me & ask, "Well, why do you care about all this?" Well, because this message needs to be heard regardless of what anyone thinks, & if nobody else is willing to step up & talk about how screwed up & oversexed our society is, then I'm going to speak up for everyone & just tell it like it is. Although I can't make everyone "like" me, I still speak up for what I believe in, whether you like what I have to say, hate it, or love it, you're entitled to your own opinion(s) & you've just heard mine.
Written & published by: Kevin Beard Jr.
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